Reflection/Homily: Fifth Sunday of Easter Year C (April 28 2013)
Theme: Putting on an Behaviour of love
There was this story we were told
at the minor seminary a few years ago. Three priests went to visit a sick male
member of their parish in the hospital. After their visit, the little daughter
was describing the priests to the mum. She told the mum that a priest, a
gentleman and a “guy man” visited. She described the priest in Soutane as a
priest, the one in clerical suit as a gentleman and the one in a good pair of
jeans with a nice T-shirt with canvas to match as a “guy man”.
This little girl only gave a description
of images she was popular with. Thus, she implemented an old rule which says: “You
are addressed the way you dress”. This old rule is what Jesus is emphasizing in
the gospel reading (John 13:31-33.34-35) but in a different dimension. Though
we may be described and judged by our code of dressing, our code of conduct
speaks more about us. In other words, it is our behaviour that defines us the
more.
That is why in other to let the
world identify and define his disciples, Jesus gave them a new commandment, a
new code of conduct or we may say, he prescribed a new behaviour for them. This
new behaviour would be for them, an identity card which they will not need to
put on on request but which will be evident everywhere they go and in everything
they do. This new commandment is nothing but love for one another just as God
loved us.
What could be the basis of this
love? In what sense could this love be new? When we consider the old commandment
of loving only those who love us, we come to understand the basis of this love
and how new it is to the Jews and even to us. Naturally, we are more inclined
to receive and reciprocate love than to offer love. More still, there is always
the tendency to love only those who have acquired the credentials to be
qualified for our love. Such could be our family members and friends.