Theme: What is your Gratitude Response?
Sometime
ago, the social media was inundated with what came to be known as the ‘Gratitude
Challenge’ where people mentioned things they were grateful for or people they
were grateful to, while nominating their friends to do the same for nine days. One
advantage of that online exercise is that it offered people the opportunity to think
about the numerous favours they have received and the much expected thanks they
had failed to give. Today, it appears that the culture of giving thanks for
favours received is gradually giving way for the culture of indifference and
ingratitude. I once bought a biscuit for a little boy during the just concluded
apostolic work and rather than thank me for the gift, he was asking me why I
bought that brand and not another. After receiving favours from God or man, rather
than give thanks for what we have received, we either ask for more like Oliver
Twist or wish we had received the other type of favour. We are hardly satisfied
with what we get that we often forget to give thanks.
The first
reading (2 Kings 5:14-17) presents us with the example of Naaman who was desperate to be healed of
his leprosy and when he was healed after bathing in the Jordan, thought it wise
to go back to the prophet to give thanks. The Gospel reading (Luke 17:11-19) in
like manner presents us with the example of the Samaritan leper who was healed
of leprosy alongside nine others but returned to Jesus alone to give thanks. Jesus asks “were not all
ten healed? Where are the other nine?” Through this, he expresses the fact that
God expects that we come back to thank Him for favours received. The way we express our gratitude to God for favours
received is what I prefer to call our ‘gratitude response’. In the readings, we
observe that Naaman and the Samaritan leper differed in their gratitude
response. In expressing their gratitude with something more than mere words,
Naaman brought some presents while the Samaritan leper ‘praising God at the top
of his voice, threw himself at the feet of Jesus’. That is, he became a
disciple of Christ by listening to him and following him. We can therefore
conclude that while Naaman was more materialistic in his gratitude response,
the Samaritan leper was more spiritual. Naaman gave what he had while the
Samaritan leper gave himself.
Today, our
interest is not on the importance of gratitude but on the type of gratitude
response we make when we are favoured by God. Are we more materialistic or
spiritual in our gratitude response? I do not intend to condemn material
thanksgiving but I want to decry how much materialistic we have become to the
extent that we totally neglect the spiritual aspect of thanksgiving. It is
observed in our churches today how families who intend to go for a thanksgiving
procession at Mass come very late to Mass and leave immediately after
presenting their gifts. One wonders if God is more interested in their gifts or
in their presence for worship. In the first reading, Elisha’s rejection of
Naaman’s material gifts implies that God the owner and giver of all things is
not so much interested in our material gifts as tokens of gratitude. God is
more interested in a spiritual gratitude response like the Samaritan leper did in the Gospel
reading, where we come to praise and thank Him with the totality of our being,
not just with what we have but with what we are by staying at his feet as his authentic
disciples. God expects that we thank Him for His favours not just by being His
benefactors but by being His disciples too. He grants us favours in other to
draw us closer to Himself and not for us to reward Him.
It appears Naaman
was more interested in rewarding the prophet for his role in his healing than
in thanking God for the healing. We see this attitude in miracle centres and
crusade grounds when testimonies are not meant to praise God who performed the
miracles but to massage the ego of the minister. The interest diverts to how
the use of special anointing oil blessed by a particular man of God worked wonders
rather than how God looked at the faith of His people and granted them favours
through the use of those sacred items. Some even consider thanksgiving
ceremonies not as opportunities to praise God but as opportunities to reward
the man of God for his untiring prayers and efforts while they were asking God
for a particular favour.
Beloved friends, today we are afflicted not just by physical leprosy but
by the leprosy of sin. As often as we get washed and healed through the ocean
of mercy flowing from the confessional, what is our gratitude response? The
best gratitude repsonse should be the firm decision to follow Jesus and avoid
returning to the dungeon of sin rather than mere ceremonial thanksgiving.
Ceremonial thanksgiving is good but a sincere commitment to follow Chist whom
St. Paul tells us in the second reading (2 Timothy 2:18-13) is always faithful even when we are unfaithful is
better. God loves you.
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